Rethinking Productivity

There's a pervasive message out there about the importance of being productive and numerous tools promising to increase our productivity. We all felt guilty, at least once, when we perceive ourselves as unproductive. Often we link this productivity with the idea of leaving a legacy. It’s a productive life if I leave a legacy.

When I ask, 'What do you want to create during your time on Earth?' I typically receive two types of answers. Some speak of their big dreams and the legacy they wish to leave; how they want to be remembered. Others talk about simpler aspirations, like spending time with loved ones and being happy. I must confess, there was a time when I thought the latter group lacked ambition. My view on this has changed.

A story that profoundly impacted me involves a conversation between Buddhist monks. A young monk spoke to an older one before leaving the temple for the summer. Upon his return three months later, the older monk inquired, 'How was your summer?' The young monk replied, 'Every day, I prepared meals, ate them, and cleaned up.' The old monk responded, 'You had a great summer.'

Initially, I didn't understand. Just cooking, eating, and washing dishes for three months - how could that be productive or meaningful? It seemed like a waste of time. But after years, the message began to resonate with me: the value in everyday, mundane routines. Alain de Botton once said, 'We forget that spreading butter on bread and making the bed for our children are wondrous things.'

So, I ask you: On your deathbed, which will weigh heavier on your heart? The pursuit of productivity and legacy, or the missed moments with loved ones? Ultimately, what does productivity truly mean to you?

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